How do I Improve my Scripture Study? Suggestions to Make it More Meaningful

President Spencer W. Kimball said:

“I find that when I get casual in my relationships with divinity and when it seems that no divine ear is listening and no divine voice is speaking, that I am far, far away. If I immerse myself in the scriptures the distance narrows and the spirituality returns.”

Elder M. Russell Ballard, "Be Strong inthe Lord, and in the Power of His Might,"  CES Fireside 3 March 2002

Here are some practical suggestions that I hope will help you derive greater power from your study of the scriptures:

• If possible, set a consistent time and place to study when you can be alone and undisturbed. Knowing the lifestyle of many young adults, I think it is safe to say that early morning in your apartments is one time you can be both alone and have it quiet.
• Always have a marking pencil ready as you study. Make notations in the margins. Write cross-references. Make the scriptures yours by marking them.
• Commit yourself to study for a set amount of time, rather than to just read a chapter or a certain number of pages. Sometimes a single verse or short passage will take the entire time as you think about it and consider what it means for you.
• Study topically as well as chronologically. Both approaches have merit, but we need to go to the Topical Guide or the index from time to time and read all that the Lord has said on repentance, or faith, or some other principle.
• Take time to ponder, reflect, meditate, and pray about what you read. Ask yourselves questions such as "What can I learn from this passage that will help me come unto Christ and be more like Him?"

One thing I have learned in life is how frequently the Lord answers our questions and gives us counsel through the scriptures. It is not unusual for one of us in the Quorum of the Twelve to say, "I saw this teaching more clearly than ever before in this verse of scripture." Let us, then, go to the Lord in prayer, pleading for help or answers; and those answers will come as we open the scriptures and begin to study them. Sometimes it is as though a passage hundreds or thousands of years old was dictated specifically to answer our question.

Remember the promise of the Lord. If you "hold fast" to the word of God, the fiery darts of the adversary will not penetrate your chain mail. Your spiritual armor will be strong.

Gordon B. Hinckley, “Feasting upon the Scriptures,” Ensign, Dec. 1985, 42
I love our scriptures. I love these wonderful volumes, which set forth the word of the Lord—given personally or through prophets—for the guidance of our Father’s sons and daughters. I love to read the scriptures, and I try to do so consistently and repeatedly. They contain so much for each of us.  I urge our people everywhere to read the scriptures more, that peace, that knowledge “which passeth all understanding” (Philip. 4:7), as he has promised. 

Suggestions: 

•     Pray before you read.   There is nothing more helpful than prayer to open our understanding of the scriptures. Through prayer we can attune our minds to seek the answers to our searchings. The Lord said: “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you” (Luke 11:9). Howard W. Hunter, “Reading the Scriptures,” Ensign, Nov. 1979, 64

•     Daily scripture study brings the peaceful influence of the Spirit into your life.   The only way you can be sure that a busy schedule doesn’t crowd out scripture study is to establish a regular time to study the scriptures. So my pattern since I was a boy has been to read my scriptures at the beginning and end of the day. I read the Book of Mormon many times before I was 18 because of that pattern.  Elder Henry B. Eyring, Ensign, July 2005, 22.

•     Feast on the Lord’s word for a set amount of time each day.  

Not only should we study each day, but there should be a regular time set aside when we can concentrate without interference.  We should not be haphazard in our reading but rather develop a systematic plan for study. There are some who read to a schedule of a number of pages or a set number of chapters each day or week. This may be perfectly justifiable and may be enjoyable if one is reading for pleasure, but it does not constitute meaningful study.

Perhaps what is more important than the hour of the day is that a regular time be set aside for study. It would be ideal if an hour could be spent each day; but if that much cannot be had, a half hour on a regular basis would result in substantial accomplishment. A quarter of an hour is little time, but it is surprising how much enlightenment and knowledge can be acquired in a subject so meaningful. The important thing is to allow nothing else to ever interfere with our study.   Howard W. Hunter, “Reading the Scriptures,” Ensign, Nov. 1979, 64

•     Try studying one topic of interest, asking questions, pondering insights, and checking the footnotes. When I came into the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, Elder Richard G. Scott suggested I buy an inexpensive set of scriptures and mark the insights and revelations I would gain in my new calling.  I asked Heavenly Father what He would have me do as an Apostle. I wrote down what I felt His answers were. I typed, color coded, and pasted those answers in the front of my scriptures. Then I read my scriptures looking for ideas that taught me how to witness that Christ is the Son of God. Every time I came to something, I marked it in blue. Soon I developed my own topical guide around what I thought the Lord wanted me to do.  Elder Henry B. Eyring, Ensign, July 2005, 22.

•     Apply the teachings to your life, and practice what you learn. Keep a paper and pencil handy while you read. This is a stimulating activity, and often goals, exciting ideas, or original thoughts will creep into your mind. Ask questions as you read the scriptures. … Question and then call upon the Lord.

•     Read the Book of Mormon. •     There is a power in the book which will begin to flow into your lives the moment you begin a serious study of the book. You will find greater power to resist temptation. You will find the power to avoid deception. You will find the power to stay on the strait and narrow path. Ezra Taft Benson, “The Book of Mormon—Keystone of Our Religion,” Ensign, Nov. 1986, 4

Through the Book of Mormon the Lord can also teach us about being with and serving people. This book reveals the will of the Lord for family life in a way that the other scriptures don’t even approach. I believe that is largely because of its interesting structure. It’s about families; it’s about people’s relationships. It starts with families, it ends with families, and we come to love these families. Elder Henry B. Eyring, Ensign, July 2005, 22.

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, Apr 2004

I see you sometimes reading a few verses, stopping to ponder them, carefully reading the verses again, and as you think about what they mean, praying for understanding, asking questions in your mind, waiting for spiritual impressions, and writing down the impressions and insights that come so you can remember and learn more. Studying in this way, you may not read a lot of chapters or verses in a half hour, but you will be giving place in your heart for the word of God, and He will be speaking to you. You will know that the gospel is being written in your heart, that your conversion is happening, as the word of the Lord from His prophets, past and present, feels more and more delicious to your soul.

     “But for most of us, who readily acknowledge the truthfulness of the standard works, if we are ever guilty of disrespecting the sacred nature of scriptures, it is by neglect. The risk we must guard against day to day is the tendency to treat lightly, or even ignore, the sacred word.”  -- Elder D. Todd Christofferson  CES Fireside, November 7, 2004, B.Y.U.

“Understanding the Importance of Scripture Study,” Elder David A. Bednar, 1998

Let me summarize the three reasons why scripture study is so important: (1) It is one of the major ways whereby we keep our covenant to always remember him. (2) It helps us become familiar with the voice of the Lord and thus better prepared to receive his direction in our lives. (3) It is a necessary preparation for and prerequisite to receiving personal revelation. 

Now I would like to suggest just a few principles that can help each of us become more effective in our personal study of the scriptures. Let me summarize the six principles: 

   • Pray for understanding and invite the help of the Holy Ghost. 

   • Work. 

   • Be consistent in terms of time and place. 

   • Ponder. 

   • Look for connections and patterns and parallels in the scriptures. 

   • Record your thoughts and feelings. 

The sixth principle is to write your thoughts and feelings. Recording what we learn and writing about what we think and feel as we study the scriptures helps us to revisit the same spirit that brought the initial insight or revelation and invites even greater understanding than was originally received. Recording our learnings and writing about our thoughts and feelings is another form of pondering and of always remembering him and is an invitation to the Holy Ghost for continued instruction. 

I personally bear testimony of the power of this principle. As we take the time to write what we think and feel in relation to studying the scriptures, an additional and increased outpouring of insight will come. 

How do I Improve my Scripture Study? What Favorite Scriptures Bring Peace and Increase Faith?

A few weeks ago in Church, our Bishop asked the question, "What favorite scriptures do you turn to when you need to find peace or want to strengthen your faith?" This became the basis for discussion during the whole hour, with people sharing their favorite scriptures and how those scriptures have helped them. I have thought a lot since about what my favorite scriptures are.

Several times in General Conference we have been encouraged to memorize some scriptures to have in times of need. So I went through my scriptures and copied down many of the scriptures I have marked over the years; I decided to put my favorite ones into categories. These are the ones I decided are some of my favorite and what I want to memorize:

My Ways Higher Than Your Ways

1 Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

Isaiah 55:8-9 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

The Savior

2 Ne 25:26 We talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins.

Mosiah 3:7 An lo, he shall suffer temptations, and pain of body, hunger, thirst, and fatigue, even more than man can suffer, except it be unto death; for behold, blood cometh from every pore, so great shall be his anguish for the wickedness and the abominations of his people.

Alma 7:11-12 And He shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.... And he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities.

Helaman 5:12 And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo.

Grace & the Strength of the Lord

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

BURDENS: Mosiah 24:14-15 I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions. ...Yea the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.

BURDENS: Alma 33:23 Plant this word in your hearts...nourish it by your faith...And then may God grant unto you that your burdens may be light, through the joy of his son. And even all this can ye do if ye will.

THORNS 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure. For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore, I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.

WEAKNESS Ether 12:27 And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.

WEAKNESS Jacob 4:6-7. Nevertheless, the Lord God showeth us our weakness that we many know that it is by his grace, and his great condescensions unto the children of men, that we have power to do these things.

Faith, Hope & Charity

Ether 12:6 Faith: And now, I Moroni, would speak somewhat concerning these things; I would show unto the world that faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith.

Ether 12:4 Hope: Wherefore, whoso believeth in God might with surety hope for a better world, yea, even a place at the right hand of God, which hope cometh of faith, maketh an anchor to the souls of men, which would make them sure and steadfast, always abounding in good works, being led to glorify God.

Moroni 7:41-42 Hope: And what is it that ye shall hope for? Behold I say unto you that ye shall have hope through the atonement of Christ and the power of his resurrection, to be raised unto life eternal, and this because of your faith in him according to the promise. Wherefore, if a man have faith he must needs have hope; for without faith there cannot be any hope.

Moroni 7:45 Charity: And charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

Moroni 7:46-48 Charity: If ye have not charity, ye are nothing, for charity never faileth, But charity is the pure love of Christ, and it endureth forever; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, is shall be well with him. Wherefore, my beloved brethren, pray unto the father with all the energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love.

Conversion

2 Nephi 4:31-32 Wilt thou make me that I man shake at the appearance of sin? ...that I may be strict in the plain road!

2 Nephi 31:20 Where ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men, Wherefore, if ye shall press forward feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.

Mosiah 5:2,4 We know of their surety and truth, because of the Spirit of the Lord Omnipotent, which has wrought a might change in us, or in our hearts, that we have no more disposition to do evil, but to do good continually. And it is the faith which we have had on the things which our king has spoken that has brought this.

3 Nephi 9:13 Will ye not now return unto me, and repent of your sins, and be converted, that I may heal you?

Helaman 3:34-35 They did fast and pray oft, and did wax stronger and stronger in their humility, and firmer and firmer in the faith of Christ unto the filling their souls with joy and consolation, yea, even to the purifying and the sanctification of their hearts, which sanctification cometh because of their yielding their hearts unto God.

Moroni 10:32-33 Yea, come unto Christ, and be perfected in him, and deny yourselves of all ungodliness; and if ye shall deny yourselves of all ungodliness, and love God with all your might, mind and strength, then is his grace sufficient for you, that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ; and if by the grace of God ye are perfect in Christ, ye can in nowise deny the power of God.

Personal Revelation/Prayer

1 Nephi 4:6-7 And I was led by the Spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do. Nevertheless, I went forth...

1 Nephi 18:1-3 And the Lord did show me from time to time after what manner I should work the timbers of the ship. Now I, Nephi, did not work the timbers after the manner which was learned by men. And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things.

2 Nephi 32:3,9 For behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do. Ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul.

3 Nephi 11:3, 5 and it was not a harsh voice, neither was it a loud voice; nevertheless, and notwithstanding it being a small voice it did pierce them that did hear to the center...yea, it did pierce them to the very soul, and did cause their hearts to burn. And again the third time they did hear the voice, and did open their ears to hear it.

Daniel 3: 16-18 Have faith in the Savior, not in hoped for outcomes - Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, answered and said to the king, O Nebuchadnezzar, we are not careful to answer thee in this matter [we don’t need to discuss this matter].  If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of thine hand, O king.  But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up.

Humility vs. Pride

Helaman 5:8 That ye may not do these things that ye may boast, but that ye may do these things to lay up for yourselves a treasure in heaven, yea, which is eternal, and which fadeth not away; yea, that ye may have that precious gift.

John 7:16,18 My doctrine is not mine, but his that sent me. … He that speaketh of himself seeketh his own glory: but he that seeketh his glory that sent him, the same is true, and no unrighteousness is in him.

Family & Parenting & Relationships

1 Nephi 18:1-3 And the Lord did show me from time to time after what manner I should work the timbers of the ship. Now I, Nephi, did not wok the timbers after the manner which was learned by men. And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things.

2 Nephi 25:28 I have spoken plainly unto you that ye cannot misunderstand.

2 Nephi 33:4 I know that the Lord God will consecrate my prayers for the gain of my people.

Alma 4:18-20 [Alma] delivered the judgment-seat unto Nephihah. And this he did that he himself might go forth among the people of Nephi, that he might preach the word of God unto them. Alma delivered up the judgment-seat to Nephihah, and confined himself wholly to the high priesthood of the holy order of God.

3 Nephi 22:13 And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children.

The Poor

2 Nephi 28:13 They rob the poor because of the fine sanctuaries; they rob the poor because of their fine clothing;

Mosiah 4:26-27 For the sake of retaining a remission of your sins from day to day, that ye may walk guiltless before God – I would that ye should impart of your substance to the poor ... both spiritually and temporally, according to their wants. And see that all these things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength.

Alma 1:27, 30 And they did impart of their substance, every man according to that which he had, to the poor, and the needy, and the sick, and the afflicted; and they did not wear costly apparel, yet they were neat and comely. And they did not set their hearts upon riches.

Matthew 25:34–40. For I was an hungered, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in, Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

Satan’s Strategies & Effects

Helaman 3:29 We see that whosoever will may lay hold upon the word of God, which is quick and powerful, which shall divide asunder all the cunning and the snares and the wiles of the devil, and lead the man of Christ in a strait and narrow course across that everlasting gulf of misery which is prepared to engulf the wicked.

2 Nephi 28: 20-21 For behold, at that day shall he rage in the hearts of the children of men, and stir them up to anger against that which is good. And others will he pacify, and lull them away into carnal security.

Mormon 5:18 But now, behold, they are led about by Satan, even as chaff is driven before the wind, or as a vessel is tossed about upon the waves, without sail or anchor, or without anything wherewith to steer her; and even as she is, so are they.

Moroni 7:12, 17 That which is evil cometh of the devil; for the devil is an enemy unto God. But whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil; for after this manner doth the devil work, for he persuadeth no man to do good, no, not one; neither do his angels; neither do they who subject themselves unto him.

Their Journeys through the Wilderness as a metaphor for our Journey through Life

1 Nephi 16:16,28 And we did follow the directions of the ball, which led us in the more fertile parts of the wilderness. I Nephi, beheld the pointers which were in the ball, that they did work according to the faith and diligence and heed which we did give unto them.

Ether 2:24-25 For behold, ye shall be as a whale in the midst of the sea; for the mountain waves shall dash upon you. Nevertheless, I will bring you up again out of the depths of the sea; for the winds have gone forth out of my mouth, and also the rains and the floods have I sent forth. And behold, I prepare you against these things; for ye cannot cross this great deep save I prepare you against the waves of the sea, and the winds which have gone forth, and the floods which shall come.

Ether 6:5 And it came to pass that the Lord God caused that there should be a furious wind blow upon the face of the waters, towards the promised land.

If we are righteous, we won’t have to wander through life, we can take a more direct course:

Alma 37:41-43 41 Nevertheless, because those miracles were worked by small means it did show unto them marvelous works. They were slothful, and forgot to exercise their faith and diligence and then those marvelous works ceased, and they did not progress in their journey; Therefore, they tarried in the wilderness, or did not travel a direct course, and were afflicted with hunger and thirst, because of their transgressions. And now, my son, I would that ye should understand that these things are not without a shadow.

Ether 3:3 Behold, O Lord, thou hast smitten us because of our iniquity, and hast driven us forth, and for these many years we have been in the wilderness; nevertheless, thou hast been merciful unto us. 

How do I Improve my Scripture Study? Ask Questions While Studying the Scriptures

I am always trying to find ways to bring the Spirit while I study my scriptures and make my study more meaningful. I am learning that asking questions brings insights and understanding, so I have been asking around and compiling ideas for good questions.

Questions to Consider While Studying the Scriptures

Relates to Me Personally or those I care about

How is this story like my life?

What topic do I need to study so I can help so and so?

What problems am I facing I would like answers about?

What scripture topic might help me receive revelation about a problem I am facing?

Context & Background

What is the context or background of this scripture?

Why was this scripture given? Is there a question or situation in the verses before?

What is the upstream doctrine?

            Some Christ-like attributes follow others – Charity is the culminating of all

Which core doctrine does this relate to?

Read the scripture backwards for different insights.

Can I diagram this verse?

Ex. Helaman 3:27-30 Pray + Believe + Read = Eternal Life

Is there a list in these verses?

Other Questions

Always ask, “Is there a connection between this subject and something else?

            Ex. Why is the word understand often used with the word heart?

Why does the Lord say it this way?

Why did he choose mercy instead of...?

Make a connection and then ask if there are scriptures to back it up.

Is this verse part of a bigger pattern or theme?

Improving Scripture Study from Elder Bednar, “A Reservoir of Living Water,” 2007

The blessings of knowledge, understanding, revelation, and spiritual exhilaration that we can receive as we read, study, and search the scriptures are marvelous.

I want to review with you three basic ways or methods of obtaining living water from the scriptural reservoir: (1) reading the scriptures from beginning to end, (2) studying the scriptures by topic, and (3) searching the scriptures for connections, patterns, and themes. Each of these approaches can help satisfy our spiritual thirst if we invite the companionship and assistance of the Holy Ghost as we read, study, and search.

Topical Study - We may identify and seek to find answers to important doctrinal and practical questions such as these:
• What is faith in the Savior?
• Why is faith in Jesus Christ the first principle of the gospel?
• Why and how does faith in the Redeemer lead to repentance?
• How does the Atonement strengthen me to do things in my daily life that I could never do with my own limited capacity and in my own strength?

Searching in The Revelations for Connections, Patterns, and Themes

In my judgment, diligently searching to discover connections, patterns, and themes is in part what it means to “feast” upon the words of Christ. This approach can open the floodgates of the spiritual reservoir, enlighten our understanding through His Spirit, and produce a depth of gratitude for the holy scriptures and a degree of spiritual commitment that can be received in no other way.

 

I. Connections - a relationship or link between ideas, people, things, or events

Prayerfully identifying, learning about, and pondering such connections—the similarities and differences, for example—is a primary source of living water.

Between:
   1. The Eternal Father and His Son, Jesus Christ (see Mosiah 15:1–9)
   2.  Mercy and grace (see 2 Nephi 9:8)
   3.  Clean hands and a pure heart (see Psalm 24:4)
   4.  A broken heart and a contrite spirit (see 3 Nephi 9:20)
   5.  The wheat and the tares (see D&C 101:65)
   6.  Knowledge and intelligence (see D&C 130:18–19)
   7.  Justification and sanctification (see D&C 20:30–31)
   8.  Sheep and goats (see Matthew 25:32–33)
   9.  Immortality and eternal life (see Moses 1:39)
  10.  I noticed that the word understanding was commonly described in relation to the heart.

1.      I find it most interesting in these and many other verses that understanding is linked primarily to the heart. Note that we are not explicitly counseled to apply our minds to understanding. Thus, understanding, as the word is used in the scriptures, does not refer solely or even primarily to intellectual or cognitive comprehension. Rather, understanding occurs when what we know in our minds is confirmed as true in our hearts by the witness of the Holy Ghost.

2.      The spiritual gift of revelation most typically operates as thoughts and feelings put into our minds and hearts by the Holy Ghost (see D&C 8:2–3, 100:5–8). And as testimony and conviction move from our heads to our hearts, we no longer just have information or knowledge—but we begin to understand and seek after the mighty change of heart. Understanding, then, is the result of revelation; it is a spiritual gift, it is a prerequisite to conversion, and it entices us to more consistently live in accordance with the principles we are learning.

3.         This revealed insight about the relationship between the heart and understanding has greatly influenced my approach to gospel learning and study, has affected positively the way Sister Bednar and I teach our children and grandchildren, and has impacted my priesthood service.

II.    Patterns - a plan, model, or standard that can be used as a guide for repetitively doing or making something.

A.    Typically, a scriptural pattern is broader and more comprehensive than a connection.

B.     In the Doctrine and Covenants we find patterns for:

1.  Preaching the gospel (see D&C 50:13–29),
2.  Avoiding deception (see D&C 52:14, 18–19)
3.  Constructing temples (see D&C 115:14–16)
4.  Establishing cities (see D&C 94)
5.  Organizing priesthood quorums (see D&C 107:85–100)

C.   Identifying and studying scriptural patterns helps us become acquainted and more familiar with the wisdom and the mind of the Lord (see D&C 95:13).

D.   As I have both read from beginning to end and studied topics in the Doctrine and Covenants, I have been impressed with a pattern that is evident in many of the Lord’s responses to the questions of missionaries. On a number of occasions in 1831, various groups of elders who had been called to preach the gospel desired to know how they should proceed and by what route and manner they should travel.

1.     The principal issues in this episode are not horses, mules, or chariots; rather, they are gratitude, judgment, and faithfulness. Please note the basic elements in this pattern: (1) a thankful heart in all things; (2) act according to judgment and the directions of the Spirit; and (3) the Savior is with the faithful always. Can we begin to sense the direction and assurance, the renewal and strength that can come from following this simple pattern for inspired and righteous judgment? Truly, scriptural patterns are a precious source of living water.

2.     The most demanding judgments we ever make are seldom between good or bad or between attractive and unattractive alternatives. Usually, our toughest choices are between good and good. In this scriptural episode, horses, mules, and chariots may have been equally effective options for missionary travel. In a similar way, you and I also might identify at various times in our lives more than one acceptable opportunity or option that we could choose to pursue. We should remember this pattern from the scriptures as we approach such important decisions. If we put essential things first in our lives—things such as dedicated discipleship, honoring covenants, and keeping the commandments—then we will be blessed with inspiration and strong judgment as we pursue the path that leads us back to our heavenly home. If we put essential things first, we “cannot go amiss” (D&C 80:3).

III. Themes - overarching, recurring, and unifying qualities or ideas.

A.    [They are] like essential threads woven throughout a text.

B.     Generally, scriptural themes are broader and more comprehensive than patterns or connections.

C.     Themes provide the background and context for understanding connections and patterns.

D.    The process of searching for and identifying scriptural themes leads us to the fundamental doctrines and principles of salvation—to the eternal truths that invite the confirming witness of the Holy Ghost (see 1 John 5:6).

E.     This approach to obtaining living water from the scriptural reservoir is the most demanding and rigorous; it also yields the greatest edification and spiritual refreshment.

F.   The scriptures are replete with powerful themes.
   1. The central and recurring theme of the Book of Mormon is the invitation for all to “come unto Christ, and be perfected in him” (Moroni 10:32). The teachings, warnings, admonitions, and episodes in this remarkable book of scripture all focus upon and testify of Jesus the Christ as the Redeemer and our Savior.
   2. “If . . . the children of men keep the commandments of God he doth nourish them, and strengthen them, and provide means whereby they can accomplish the thing which he has commanded them” (1 Nephi 17:3).
   3. “Press forward with a steadfastness in Christ” (2 Nephi 31:20).
   4. “Men are, that they might have joy” (2 Nephi 2:25).
   5. “In the strength of the Lord thou canst do all things” (Alma 20:4).
   6. “Wickedness never was happiness” (Alma 41:10).

Ask, "What does this word mean?"

             ex. from Elder David A. Bednar, “In the Strength of the Lord”: 

In the Bible Dictionary in our scriptures we learn that the word grace frequently is used in the scriptures to connote enabling power. In my personal scripture study I often insert the term enabling power whenever I encounter the word grace. I believe we can learn much about this vital aspect of the Atonement if we will insert enabling and strengthening power each time we find the word grace in the scriptures.

How to Be a Better Parent: Counsel From Prophets and Apostles

1.   MAKE PARENTING A PRIORITY – Our Children need quantity and quality time

Thomas S. Monson, “The Path to Peace,” Apr. 94

So frequently we mistakenly believe that our children need more things, when in reality their silent pleadings are simply for more of our time.

Neal Maxwell, “Take Especial Care of Your Family,” Apr. 94

Obviously, family values mirror our personal priorities.  Given the gravity of current conditions, would parents be willing to give up just one outside thing, giving that time and talent instead to the family?  Parents and grandparents, please scrutinize your schedules and priorities in order to ensure that life’s prime time relationships get more prime time!        

Howard W. Hunter, “Being a Righteous Husband and Father,” Oct. 1994

Your leadership of the family is your most important and sacred responsibility. The family is the most important unit in time and in eternity and, as such, transcends every other interest in life. Effective family leadership, brethren, requires both quantity and quality time.

L. Tom Perry, “Therefore I was Taught,” Apr. 94

Family life, where children and parents communicate together in study, play, and work, has been replaced by a quick, individual, microwave dinner and an evening in front of the TV set.  I’ve often thought of the happy times we had when our family was young. 

There are two areas I would determine to improve if that privilege were granted to me to have young children in our home once again. 

• The first would be to spend more time as husband and wife in a family executive committee meeting learning, communicating, planning, and organizing to better fulfill our roles as parents. 
• The second wish I would like, if I could have those years over, would be to spend more family time.  This includes more consistent, meaningful family home evenings.”

Neal A. Maxwell, Things As They Really Are, 4

Our "luggage," as we leave this life, will include the intelligence we have acquired while here. (D&C 130:18‑19.) Not everything we have learned will be useful enough to go with us; memorized phone numbers, a brief convenience here, would not be helpful there, but a highly developed capacity to love others will be essential equipment in the celestial kingdom.

Neal A. Maxwell, We Will Prove Them Herewith

Should it surprise us that in striving to acquire and develop celestial attributes, the greater the interpersonal proximity, the greater the challenge?  Is not patience, for instance, best developed among those with whom we interface incessantly?  The same is true with any of the other eternal attributes.  Hence the high adventure of marriage and family life ‑‑ and why it is that in our time so many run away from these challenges thinking they can avoid having to confront themselves by losing themselves in other endeavors or life‑styles.

2.      UNDERSTAND AND BALANCE DISCIPLINE

James E. Faust, “The Atonement: Our Greatest Hope,” October 2001

With reference to our mortal acts and the Atonement, President J. Reuben Clark Jr. contributed this valuable insight when he said:

“I feel that [the Savior] will give that punishment which is the very least that our transgression will justify. I believe that he will bring into his justice all of the infinite love and blessing and mercy and kindness and understanding which he has. …

“And on the other hand, I believe that when it comes to making the rewards for our good conduct, he will give us the maximum that it is possible to give, having in mind the offense which we have committed.” 30

As Isaiah wrote, if we will return unto the Lord, “he will abundantly pardon.” 31

Gordon B. Hinckley, Bring up a Child in the Way He Should Go,” Oct. 93
Love can make the difference-love generously given in childhood and reaching through the awkward years of youth.  It will do what money lavished on children will never do.
And patience, with a bridling of the tongue and self-mastery over anger. And encouragement that is quick to compliment and slow to criticize.
These, with prayers, will accomplish wonders.  You cannot expect to do it alone.  You need heaven’s help in rearing heaven’s child. 
Howard W. Hunter, “Parents’ Concern for Children,” Oct. 1983

We should remember that errors of judgment are generally less serious than errors of intent.

Even if there was a mistake made with full knowledge and understanding, there is the principle of repentance for release and comfort. Rather than constantly dwelling on what we perceive as a mistake or a sin or a failure to the detriment of our progress in the gospel or our association with family and friends, it would be better for us to turn away from it.

3.   STUDYING DOCTRINE WILL IMPROVE BEHAVIOR QUICKER THAN TALKING ABOUT BEHAVIOR

Boyd K. Packer, “Washed Clean,” April 1997

My message is to our young people. We have great concern for young people who grow up without values on which to base their conduct. I have long believed that the study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than talking about behavior will improve behavior.

Elder Henry B. Eyring, “The Power of Teaching Doctrine,” Apr. 1999
The question should not be whether we are too tired to prepare to teach doctrine, or whether it wouldn’t be better to draw a child closer by just having fun, or whether the child isn’t beginning to think that we preach too much. The question must be, “With so little time and so few opportunities, what words of doctrine from me will fortify them against the attacks on their faith which are sure to come?” The words you speak today may be the ones they remember. And today will soon be gone.
The best time to teach is early, while children are still immune to the temptations of their mortal enemy, and long before the words of truth may be harder for them to hear in the noise of their personal struggles. 

4.    TEACH CHILDREN TO EXERCISE AGENCY

Elder David A. Bednar, “Seek Learning by Faith,” Ensign, Sep. 2007

Consider the question posed by Heavenly Father to Adam in the Garden of Eden, “Where art thou?” (Genesis 3:9). Obviously the Father knew where Adam was hiding, but He, nonetheless, asked the question. Why? A wise and loving Father enabled His child to act in the learning process and not merely be acted upon. There was no one-way lecture to a disobedient child, as perhaps many of us might be inclined to deliver. Rather, the Father helped Adam as a learner to act as an agent and appropriately exercise his agency.

I have observed a common characteristic among the instructors who have had the greatest influence in my life. They refused to give me easy answers to hard questions. In fact, they did not give me any answers at all. Rather, they pointed the way and helped me take the steps to find my own answers.

Experience has enabled me to understand that an answer given by another person usually is not remembered for very long, if remembered at all. But an answer we discover or obtain through the exercise of faith, typically, is retained for a lifetime. The most important learnings of life are caught—not taught.

Please note how this inspired challenge is a classic example of learning by faith. First, you and I were not commanded, coerced, or required to read. Rather, we were invited to exercise our agency as agents and act in accordance with correct principles. President Hinckley, as an inspired teacher, encouraged us to act and not just be acted upon. Each of us, ultimately, had to decide if and how we would respond to the challenge—and if we would endure to the end of the task.

Quentin L. Cook, “Stewardship – a Sacred Trust,” Oct. 2009

We are responsible for the talents we have received. Children who are not taught that they are accountable for their time and talents are increasingly subject to the foolishness and unrighteousness that are so pervasive in the world.

What the Scriptures Teach About How to Be a Better Parent

We are supposed to liken the scriptures unto ourselves and I have found in my life that the example of Nephi building the boat illustrates some critical points to remember when parenting.

The first point is that Nephi didn’t build the ship after the manner of men. This is a good reminder that we shouldn’t always base our parenting choices on what is popular at the time. I often try to remind myself that “The Lords ways are higher than my ways (Isaiah 55:8-9).”

The other important lesson from Nephi is that “the Lord did show [him] from time to time after what manner [he] should work the timbers.” Also, that Nephi had to “go to the mount oft, and [he] did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto [him] great things.]

I remember one time when my daughter was in high school, I noticed that she was being extra quiet and keeping to herself. I tried on several occasions to talk with her and ask what was wrong. She kept assuring me that everything was fine. I kept praying for help to know what to do, and one day I had a feeling about what was concerning my daughter. As I approached her on that specific concern, she opened up and we were able to talk through the problem.

The other scripture from the list below that has really blessed my parenting is from Alma Chapter 4. Alma the Younger was both the chief judge and the high priest over the Church. The members of the Church were becoming more wicked. So “Alma delivered up the judgment-seat to Nephihah, and confined himself wholly to the high priesthood... that he himself might go forth among his people that he might preach the word of God unto them.” 

I have seen that one of the challenges of today is that parents can get so busy doing good things, that they are not around enough for their children. When I was a young mother back in 1987, President Benson gave his talk, “To Mothers in Zion.” His first of ten suggestions was:  

First, take time to always be at the crossroads when your children are coming or going—when they leave and return from school—when they leave and return from dates—when they bring friends home. Be there at the crossroads whether your children are six or sixteen.

In the almost 30 years since, (my youngest in now in high school) I have found this to be very wise counsel.

See also Elder Bednar’s talk: “More Diligent and Concerned at Home.”

Here are some of the scriptures from the Book of Mormon which provide insight on parenting and relationships:

1 Nephi 18:1-3 And we did work timbers of curious workmanship. And the Lord did show me from time to time after what manner I should work the timbers of the ship.

Now I, Nephi, did not work the timbers after the manner which was learned by men, neither did I build the ship after the manner of men; but I did build the ship after the manner which the Lord had shown unto me.

And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things.

2 Nephi 25:28 I have spoken plainly unto you that ye cannot misunderstand.

2 Nephi 33:4 I know that the Lord God will consecrate my prayers for the gain of my people.

Jacob 2:8-9, 35 And it supposeth me that they have come up hither to hear the pleasing word of God, yea, the word which healeth the wounded soul. And because of the strictness of the word of God, which cometh down against you, many hearts died, pierced with deep wounds.

Alma 4:18-20 [Alma] delivered the judgment-seat unto Nephihah. And this he did that he himself might go forth among the people of Nephi, that he might preach the word of God unto them. Alma delivered up the judgment-seat to Nephihah, and confined himself wholly to the high priesthood of the holy order of God.

Alma 6:6 They should gather themselves together oft, and join in fasting and mighty prayer in behalf of the welfare of the souls of those who knew not God.

Alma 10:7 For he [Alma] has fasted many days because of the sins of the people.

Alma 39:7 I would not dwell upon your crimes, to harrow up your soul, if it were not for your good.

Alma 42:1,30 For ye so try to suppose that it is injustice that the sinner should be consigned to a state of misery. I desire that ye should deny the justice of God no more. Do not endeavor to excuse yourself in the least point because of your sins, by denying the justice of God; but do you let the justice of God, and his mercy, and his long-suffering have full sway in your heart; and let it bring you down to the dust in humility.

3 Nephi 11:29 He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another.

3 Nephi 22:13 And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children.

3 Nephi 25:6 I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord. And he shall turn [bind or seal J.S.] the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

Mormon 8:20 Behold what the scripture says – man shall not smite, neither shall he judge; for judgment is mine, saith the Lord, and vengeance is mine also, and I will repay.

Moroni 8:2-3 My beloved son, Moroni...I am mindful of you always in my prayers, continually praying unto God the Father in the name of his Holy Child, Jesus, that he, through his infinite goodness and grace, will keep you through the endurance of faith on his name to the end.

How to Be a Better Parent: Preparing Our Children for The Fight Against Evil - Lessons from the War Chapters of the Book of Mormon

What lessons can we learn for today in the War Chapters of the Book of Mormon? Decide for yourself of how these might relate to today’s fight against evil. How can you apply these in your own family or situation?

Elder Bednar did a great job listing some the lessons we learn from the war chapters:

David A. Bednar, BYUI, 2003

Have you ever wondered why so much is recorded in the Book of Mormon about war? There are approximately 100 recorded instances of armed conflict in the Book of Mormon. The word war occurs 132 times in the Book of Mormon. The war chapters of Alma 43-63 alone include more than 50 pages- approximately 10 percent of the entire Book of Mormon.

Why so much about war? And how do the descriptions of wars and battles help us today in seeking the gift of courage? President Benson taught:

The Book of Mormon was written for us today. God is the author of the book. God, who knows the end from the beginning, told [Mormon] what to include in his abridgment that we would need for our day (President Ezra Taft Benson, Conference Report, April 1975, p. 94).

Let me suggest that one of the primary reasons so much information is recorded about war in the Book of Mormon is to help you and me in these latter days appropriately seek the gift of courage.

What lessons do we learn about courage and war in The Book of Mormon?

·         We learn about the strategies and tactics of those who oppose righteousness

·         The defensive and protective strategies and tactics of the righteous.

·         We learn that the righteous can be strengthened in battle by the hand of the Lord.

·         And perhaps most importantly, we learn that small groups of the righteous can escape from the grasp of their enemies or emerge victorious against overwhelming opposing numbers and weaponry.

What Worked in the Past Isn’t Enough: Prepare in a Manner “Which has Never Been Known” Alma 49:8

Note this warning given by President Henry B. Eyring of the First Presidency:

“As the forces around us increase in intensity, whatever spiritual strength was once sufficient will not be enough. And whatever growth in spiritual strength we once thought was possible, greater growth will be made available to us. Both the need for spiritual strength and the opportunity to acquire it will increase at rates which we underestimate at our peril” (“Always” [Church Educational System fireside for young adults], Jan. 3, 1999, 3, ldsces.org).

Alma 43 - How did Moroni prepare against the evil of Zerahemnah? (an army twice as numerous)

1.      vs. 19 - Captain Moroni prepared his people with armor and thick clothing

2.      vs. 23 - Captain Moroni sends spies to watch the enemy

3.      vs. 23 - Captain Moroni sends a messenger to Alma the prophet to have him ask the Lord where they should go

4.      vs. 48 - As his men begin to fear, Captain Moroni inspires his men with the truth of their cause

5.      vs. 49 - they cry to the Lord for help and in vs. 50 In the selfsame hour that they cry to the Lord, they stand with power against their enemies.

6.      Alma 44:9  Zerahemnah, leader of their enemies, denies that it was the Lord who gave the Nephites the victory.

Alma 48 - How did Moroni prepare against the evil of Amalakiah?

1.      vs. 7 - Captain Moroni was “preparing the minds of the people to be faithful unto the Lord.

2.      vs. 8 - Captain Moroni erected small forts, or places of resort to enclose his armies, and built walls of stone to encircle them about.

3.      vs. 9 - Captain Moroni fortified their weakest places by placing the greater number of men.

Ensign Article by By Kerry Hanson Jensen, 1/16

I began to feel a sense of helplessness and vulnerability in protecting my children. I unexpectedly found reassurance in 1 Nephi 15. Nephi is explaining Lehi’s vision of the tree of life to Laman and Lemuel when they ask the meaning of the river of water. Nephi answers in verse 27: “And I said unto them that the water which my father saw was filthiness; and so much was his mind swallowed up in other things that he beheld not the filthiness of the water”. Lehi’s mind was focused on the tree of life and getting his family to it to partake of its fruit! He didn’t even see the filthiness because of this focus.

That was the answer! Keeping inappropriate media out of our home was a start, but a more direct and conscious effort to teach our children the gospel is what would ultimately be their best defense against anything that could lead them away.

Alma 58 - How did the Lord strengthen the people against their enemies?

1.      Helaman and the Stripling Warriors poured out their souls for strength vs. 10

2.      The Lord did visit them with assurances and did speak peace to their souls vs. 11

3.      The Lord did grant unto them great faith and did cause that they should hope for deliverance. vs. 11

Other Resources:

Alma 50: 23 never had been a happier time among the Nephites

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/personal-strength-through-the-atonement-of-jesus-christ?lang=eng&query=%22Captain+Moroni%22

Elder Richard G. Scott

In between the many battles, Captain Moroni directed fortification of the weakest cities. “He caused that they should build a breastwork of timbers upon the inner bank of the ditch; and they cast up dirt out of the ditch against the breastwork of timbers … until they had encircled the city … with a strong wall of timbers and earth, to an exceeding height.”14 Captain Moroni understood the importance of fortifying the weak areas to create strength.15

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/10/prepared-in-a-manner-that-never-had-been-known?lang=eng&query=%22Captain+Moroni%22

Linda C. Reeves

As I am again reading about Captain Moroni in the Book of Mormon, I am reminded that one of Moroni’s greatest accomplishments was his careful preparation of the Nephites to withstand the frightening Lamanite army. He prepared his people so well that we read, “Behold, to [the Lamanites’] uttermost astonishment, [the Nephites] were prepared for them, in a manner which never had been known.”3

That phrase, “prepared … in a manner which never had been known,” really caught my attention.

How can we better prepare for sacred temple blessings? The Lord taught, “And again, I will give unto you a pattern in all things.”4Let’s consider a scriptural pattern to help us prepare well. Moroni’s preparation for the enemy took consistent and faithful diligence, and this pattern will require the same.